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Notes and essays on the things I work on, think about and experience — across life, adventure, consulting and technology.

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We Had Both Tried and Failed for Years. So Why Did It Work This Time?

Sixteen years married, and the thing that changed us did not arrive as a crisis. It arrived as a set of holiday photographs neither of us could look at, and a long drive home in which we agreed to stop doing it on our own.Sixteen years married, and the thing that changed us did not arrive as a crisis. It arrived as a set of holiday photographs neither of us could look at, and a long drive home in which we agreed to stop doing it on our own.